Becoming definitive is just that, a “mind set” a way of being, and inorder to become definitive you have to clearly understand who you are, and what you stand for. I often use myself as an example when talking about this, because I am one to believe that because my Father is limitless I am too limitless – so in that titles can always be adopted and reinvented but should never ‘lock’ up our true destiny… For instance

I am deeply creative, I am an evangelist for change, I believe in financial independence, I love discovering the core of people and helping them tell their story exposing their authentic value proposition, THESE are a few things about me, and there is no title that encompasses that, and rightfully so. I created a title just so that people have a starting point to my depth.

Becoming Definitive is a conscious decision that says: “This is who I am and I am willing to maximize who I am for the betterment of the collective whole.” “My contribution is meaningful, relevant, and indeed life changing.”

To get to this point though… It is imperative that you understand who you are, what your unique value proposition is, and be willing to be different if you are called to be.

But we all have to start somewhere. And I see the concept of becoming definitive as the same as you see constant growth and development. It’s not so much as locking yourself to definitions, but rather getting a clearer understanding of what you’re all about SO that you can grow.

We’re all born to make some sort of difference; to bring about some sort of change; to improve life and to impact lives. Becoming definitive helps us to understand the space God has carved out for us to occupy; it helps us to gage and see clearly where we are called to make a difference, bring about change and impact lives.